Thought for the Day: 3 Principles for Getting Who You Want
Roger Mayer for AllDatingTips.com



If you've ever been to the Love Tactics site, you'll know they preach about three fundamentals for getting the one you want. They are: Friendship, Respect, and Passion. At first, I was little dismissive with the thought of being friends first. Doesn't everyone say (for males at least) you shouldn't get into the friends zone. The friends zone is doom, you'll never get out!! I think this is somewhat true if you don't have the second fundamental of respect. You can't be with someone you don't respect. Think about it, she/he may be incredibly good looking, but could have low morals, a different lifestyle, no ambition...etc. Passion is the last step which pushes the relationship to its romantic and intimate level. All three are essential for a successful relationship.

The site also preaches about putting in the time to get who you want. This is something I personally am doing currently. It's been a very gradual process, but slowly but surely I'm developing a closer relationship with the one I want. Sure, I could just throw in the towel and date someone easier just for the sake of having someone (I have been tempted more than once out of frustration). However, I'm really interested in something with a lot of substance and am willing to put in the time to nurture it.

It's about what you want and doing what is necessary to get it.

To Your Success in Life,

Roger Mayer for AllDatingTips.com